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THINK I MIGHT BE PREGNANT!!!
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First, find out if you ARE pregnant.
You do need to know as soon as possible whether or not you are pregnant.
If your period is late, and you think you might be pregnant, have a pregnancy
test as soon as possible. You can get a pregnancy test from...
- A Brook Centre:
test is free; immediate result.
- A school nurse:
can give advice and support and, in some areas, can offer a free pregnancy
test.
- A GP (family
doctor):
test is free; but not always available. It is worth phoning the doctor
in advance to find out whether they give on the spot results, or whether
you will have to wait.
- A family planing
clinic:
may be available free. Always ask to see a doctor or nurse urgently.
Immediate results with support and advice.
- A pharmacist:
the pharmacist can do the test for you, and will make a charge. Ask
how long the result will take.
- A home testing
kit: you
can buy a home pregnancy testing kit from a pharmacy and do the test
yourself.
- A GUM clinic
(genito urinary medicine or 'special' clinic): will often offer
a free test; immediate result.
The earlier you know
whether or not you are pregnant, the more options you will have.
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If
your pregnancy test is positive, and you ARE pregnant, you have three
choices. You may decide:
If your pregnancy
test is negative you will need another test the following week if your
period has still not started. If you are NOT pregnant, ask a doctor about
a reliable method of contraception to avoid future worries.
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If
you choose to keep the baby, what happens next?
- A doctor will make
arrangements for the baby's birth and explain how to take care of your
own health while you are pregnant. It is important to go for antenatal
care regularly from the start of your pregnancy, for your own health,
and that of your baby.
- Having a baby in
the future may have been part of the plans which you and your partner
had discussed. Even though it has happened earlier than planned, you
may both be thrilled. If so, now is the time to plan how you will set
up home together and how you will care for the baby.
- If you have to
bring the baby up on your own, social services can put you in touch
with support and help. They can give you advice on benefits, housing
and other sources of support, including special mother and baby units.
In some areas SureStart Plus provides a one-stop advice and guidance
service to pregnant teenagers.
- The Child Support
Agency will want to know the name of the child's father to make sure
that he contributes to the cost of the child's care.
- If you are still
at school, it may be possible for you to continue your education. Many
further education colleges offer mothers a crèche.
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If
I request an abortion, what happens next?
- If
you decide to have an abortion, you need to arrange this as soon as
possible.
- You
will need to see a doctor who will examine you to confirm the pregnancy
and work out how many weeks pregnant you are. The doctor will discuss
with you the effect having the baby would have on your life. If the
doctor agrees that your reasons for needing an abortion are within the
law, he or she will sign a certificate and send you to another doctor
for a second opinion.
- An
abortion can be carried out as soon as a woman knows she is pregnant.
Abortion up to about 12 weeks of pregnancy is a relatively simple and
safe procedure but after this it becomes more complicated. Also doctors
may be less willing to carry out an abortion after 12 weeks and only
in exceptional circumstances after 24 weeks of pregnancy.
- A
girl under 16 may give her own consent for an abortion, if she can show
she understands what is involved, although the doctor will encourage
her to involve her parents. In practice, many doctors will not give
an abortion to a girl under 16 without the consent of her parents.
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If
I choose to have the baby adopted, what happens next?
- If you decide to
opt for adoption, you will need to arrange antenatal care as soon as
possible, for your own health and for the health of the baby.
- If your baby is
adopted then the adopted parents legally become the parents of the child.
You cannot change your mind and have the child back later.
- Social Services
can give you advice on benefits and other help or support you may need
during your pregnancy. They can also put you in touch with an adoption
agency.
- If you have strong
feelings about the sort of family you would like to adopt your child,
discuss these with the adoption agency. Wherever possible, they will
try to meet your wishes.
- If you wish, you
can involve the father, but you do not have to tell anyone who the fathers
is, if you don't want to.
- If you decide,
after all, to keep the baby once it has been born, there will be no
pressure on you to give it up for adoption.
- The adoption becomes
legal when the child has been with its adoptive parents for a while
and the adoption has been agreed in court. You will be asked to sign
a document agreeing to the adoption officially. This can be as soon
as a few weeks after the birth or later, if you need more time to decide.
- Young people who
have been adopted have the right to seek their birth parents when they
are 18 years old. You may want to make plans for this possibility.
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